No String Attached Sex. Friendship With Erotic Benefits

Is there friendship with erotic benefits? In this case erotic benefits stand for Sex. Or I can ask it this way: Is there no strings attached casual sex relationship? Can be a friendship between two or more people mix with sex? If yes who they are, friends, lovers or sex bodies?

If you browse erotic ads on the Internet, probably you have already realized that, most erotic swinger personals start like this: "Looking for friends with erotic benefits". Open minded people (swingers and non-swingers) looking for sex partners with out string attached. Maybe just for one night or if they enjoyed each other's performance, they might get together several times. It's "Casual Sex", they get all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment.

Swingers' friendship usually not a traditional type of friendship and because of this, swingers don't date on a traditional way. In many cases, they don't know to much personal info about the others. Is it really a friendship? Of course it is, but they are not that kind of friends that your grandmother call for friend... Swingers might have intercourse with their swinging friends, and your grandma might have a piece of cake with her tee when she meets whit her friends.

So what kind of friends are in your mind? Friends to having a nice cup of tee with or friends to have sex with? Either way if you looking for and if you really want something, sooner or later it will happen. However you have to be prepared. Just like grandma does for her tee party. She buys some tee and might bake a cake or pie. And when her friends arrive, she let them know her rules, for example, smoking on the patio only.

Not just grandma does it, most swinger couples set up their own rules too. Rules like, same room fun, or no anal sex, or protected sex only. Well very easy to set up those rules and when two or three horny friends meet, very easy to break those rules. You should not break your own rules in the heat of the moment. If your rules to tight, talk about it with your partner, before you meet with your friends and change it. Do it in advance, but not in the heat of the moment.

If you change something in a middle of an erotic meeting, you might do something that you will regret tomorrow. For example some swinger couple have a no sex on the first meeting rule. Before their sex relationship starts, they decide how it will start and how it will end.

You are a single man and your new friends a man - woman couple. You think she is hot and she think you are a nice guy.

She might even get horny just thinking about sex and you. But if they have a no sex on the first date rule, most likely it wont happen today. They will go home, talk about it and if both of them think you are a nice guy, you might get a invitation from your new friends. At this time sex in their mind. So here we go again, friends and sex.

You met with them, the night was great, the sex was even better. What's going to happen now? Can friends who sleep together remain friends? It might happen, you think or they think something just not right, or for some other reason; no more chemistry. What about the friendship? Is it over too? In this case the start of sex is the start of the end of your new friendship.

Sex creates a bond, no matter how discussed up front it, no matter how long have you been friend with your new sex partner. Someone might get hurt in the end of a simple traditionally relationship. Swingers are different, they use the words, no strings attached, and casual sex relationship. They have friends like grandma has, friends to have a cup of tee with and they have friends to spice up their sex life with. Orgasm is the sole purpose in this friendship. Who isn't always appreciative of a mind blowing orgasm?

Swingers don't want commitments, they don't want complication in their life, they don't want any strings attached with their swinging friends. However when great orgasms occurs regularly, how can they not start to feel something for the other? He and she will, and he or she is usually the new friend in this sexual relationship. One person will feel a stronger emotional bond than the other and the other just want to have great sex.

Experienced swingers know that, this is the time to move on. They might or might not introduce their sex-body to someone, either way for them this chapter is over. Is this mean the friendship is over too? It depends on a lot of other thing, but the sexual benefits on a regular basic is over. They might stay friends, they might get together sometimes for a cup off tee or a coffee, they might run into each other at the party, they might even have sex, but no string attached.

No I got back to where I started: Is there a friendship with erotic benefits? Is there no string attached sex relationship? Well, you decide!

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